Saturday, May 26, 2007

Bad News

Yesterday was a day that was very stressful I am relieved that the day is behind us. My wife had a miscarriage. I believe that this was in Gods hands and that there is a reason for these things to happen. Thank you for all of your support and comments along the way. I will be taking some time from posting for the time being. We both need some time to digest what has happened. We will take some time to heal but we are planning to try again.

18 comments:

Mom At 35 said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.
My love and thoughts to you both.
((((((((hug))))))))

Anonymous said...

Sad I am so very sorry your baby has passed on ((((HUGS))))

My heart goes out to you and your wife....

As you are already painfully aware. You will be going through so much emotionally. I can tell you the preg and infant loss board has helped me, and many, many, other women tremendously.

Please, when you are ready, post on this board. I promise you will be happy you did.

http://www.pregnancy.org/phpBB2/viewforum.php?f=186&sid=0163622cc015d71c13fa31942edf90e0

Anonymous said...

I am very sorry for your Angel. Big Hug! Yes. Be sure to take time to grieve. Remember: This was not your fault. It's easy to say, but alot harder to believe.

If you choose to come back, here is the link to the loss support board:

http://www.pregnancy.org/phpBB2/viewforum.php?f=186

It is a "safe" board for those who have lost children. All the girls there know exactly what you are going through.

Just remember when posting on that board or on any thread dealing with loss, please remove your signature so as to respect the feelings of the other posters.

Again, I am so very sorry that this happened. Big Hug! Big Hug! Big Hug! I hope your wife has a quick recovery. Perhaps you could buy a piece of jewelry or plant some flowers to remember your Angel by. It can also help to name the baby. Even though they are in Heaven, they will always be yours.

Anonymous said...

I am very sorry. Have you inquired about her illness and if it could have been related? Its something to be inquire about so you are ready next time. I've never heard of a cold causing m/c, but if it was truely an infection.... or perhaps the impending m/c caused the illness.

I know its hard to loose a baby at any point, I am certain I had a very early m/c about 2 years ago at 4 weeks. I didn't even know I was pregnant, but it was still devestating and put me into depression. Your family is in my prayers in this difficult time.

Lily55 said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Rob Monroe said...

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. You will both be in our prayers as you go through this difficult time.

"Mean Mom" said...

I'd like to add my condolences as well. I've been through this myself and it is hard. You'll be both be in my thoughts and prayers. Post hen you feel like it...just do what feels right for you and your ife. Hugs to you both.

Julie
www.askmeanmom.com

Anonymous said...

Hugs to you and your wife sweetie. Know that we are all here for you should you need us. There is a wealth of comfort and support to be found on the loss boards should you feel the need.

I am thinking of you both right now and sending lots of love to you.

Jo x

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.
Having been in your shoes before I can say that it is tough, but never lose hope- your little angel will always watch over you and the little ones in your future.

Best of luck going forward!

yatie'scorner said...

i'm sorry for your loss.
hope both of you doing fine and good to here your planning.

karenyiau said...

I'm so sorry to hear about this but both of you have to be strong. Please take care & I hope to hear about you in this blog again.

"Mean Mom" said...

Just postiing again to tell you that I've been thinking of you and your wife. Hope that you are both doing well.

Hugs,

Julie
www.askmeanmom.com

Got My Kids Mississauga said...

My heart aches for you.

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Pete Aldin said...

We lost our 2nd son at birth, born prem and deformed. I hear people say that a miscarriage is no big deal because you never knew the child.

Those people never had a miscarriage or lost a baby. Sound like you're moving forwards now and staying positive. Grace & peace to you both!

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